Saturday, July 8, 2017

Psychiatrist-Patient Sex - plus a detective

When I was looking for audio books for my drive to Vermont, how could I resist Shrink  Rap, especially since the author was the wonderful Robert B. Parker of "Spenser" fame. Here's the blurb from the jacket:
Boston P.I. [private investigator] Sunny Randall is working as a bodyguard for popular romance writer Melanie Hall, who is being stalked by her psychiatrist ex-husband. Melanie was a patient before becoming his wife, but now she is absolutely terrified by him. To find out why, Sunny puts on a disguise and goes to the shrink for therapy.
The most-read posts on this blog are those under the tab of "doctor-patient sex," and I was eager to see Parker's take on the topic.

Melanie Joan Hall is a wildly successful chick lit writer and, like her heroines, a romantic soul. She falls in love with her psychiatrist (Dr. Melvin) whose practice is entirely composed of needy female souls like herself. Dr. Melvin allows an erotic transference to form, but then instead of using it as an opportunity to minister to Melanie Joan, he exploits it for sex and control. 

Melvin has sex with many patients, but he singles Melanie Joan out for marriage. Although he's a thoroughly evil character, Melanie Joan only catches on when he invites two of his friends to participate in what the narrative calls a "gang bang." Until the "gang bang" moment Melanie Joan has been entranced by what she calls the "master/slave" relationship. But when the potential "gang bang" shocks her into recognizing Dr. Melvin's evilness, she flees. Melvin goes off the deep end and stalks her. Enter private eye Sunny Randall.

Sunny seeks out Dr. Max Copeland, a skillful and ethical psychiatrist, to help her strategize about Melvin. Sunny tells herself she's seeing Copeland for advice, not therapy, but Copeland engages her in self-reflection as well. He's a superb therapist - respectful, insightful, and entirely focused on helping his detective-patient. He obviously likes and admires Sunny, who is brave, honest, funny, and emotionally open, but unlike Melvin he is scrupulous in using his interaction with her to develop a therapeutic alliance.

Parker has excellent insight into the ways patients may idealize a therapist who listens to them attentively. Sunny herself feels the pull when she becomes a "patient" in Melvin's practice. I won't give away how she cracks the case - it's scary and humorous. But when she expresses her puzzlement at how in the early phase of their "therapy" Melvin was actually helpful to her, Copeland responds as I have to comments on earlier posts - physicians who exploit patients A, B and C may also have skills that allow them to practice very competently with patients D, E, and F.

Shrink Rap brought to mind Dressed to Kill. a Brian DePalma film I saw in 1980. I'd not heard of the film until a young woman patient brought it up in a therapy session. She said it reminded her of her treatment. When she went on to mention that the psychiatrist in the film murdered his patient, I remember feeling horrified. Alas, I can't remember what I said to my patient, but I resolved to see the film. I won't give away DePalma's Hitchcockian plot in case you decide to see it, but my patient got the film story right. The psychiatrists really does murder his patient.

Parker and DePalma render the dark side of our fantasies about psychiatrists. The cultural figures who - in our upbeat moods - we see as wise and powerful healers, turn into monsters when they choose to use their power for evil aims. It's the same dynamic as the wolf in Little Red Riding Hood - a loving grandmother on the outside but ravenous wolf within.

Sadly, the stories Parker and DePalma tell so well aren't restricted to myth. The reason my posts on doctor-patient sex have garnered so much readership is that the myth plays itself out in life. The problem isn't new. 2500 years ago Hippocrates asked physicians to pledge fidelity to their patients' well-being, and to eschew sexual exploitation. Hippocrates understood that just as the wolf gives in to temptation when he sees Little Red Riding Hood and her basket of food as tempting morsels, physicians of his day, and ours, are exposed to temptation as they practice their art.

The reason the Hippocratic oath has survived for 2500 years is that Hippocrates saw medicine as a sacred calling that requires an impeccable standard of ethics. Parker and DePalma's engaging stories show what can happen when the oath is ignored.

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